Basic Description

Deeply specific human. Limited edition probably.

Ayo. I'm Nicolas 👋🏽

Just a guy in his mid-30s trying to create a meaningful life without losing the plot entirely.

Black, trans, autistic, adopted — the starter pack was objectively a little complex. I spent years learning how to survive it.
Now I'm trying to learn how to actually live.

I write about healing, masculinity, autism, love & relationships, transitioning, and the ongoing psychological side quest of becoming a person on purpose instead of by accident.

This space is messy by design. Unserious, but thoughtful. For anyone currently rebuilding themselves with no blueprint.